Your Partner’s Ex’s Past
Next, you need to think about your partner’s ex’s past, if possible. Is this behavior following a pattern? Does the ex have any history of violence or brushes with the law? If so, it might be time to involve the police. If not, then maybe waiting it out is your best bet.
Be Patient
While experiencing this is very unpleasant at the very least and awful at worst, remaining patient might help avoid an escalation. If you respond with anger, you could make the situation worse by giving the person the attention they’re looking for. Try to remain calm in order to avoid any other escalations.